Bold Talk (via Mowser)

Friday, February 17, 2012

To condom or not?

As I was waiting to pick Jovial up from school today, to while away my waiting, I would mingle with those parents doing the same like I do but today it was kind of different, when what I saw and what I heard,piqued my curiousness and my concern.

There was this couple on a motorbike,have seen the girl before (last year still donning the pinafore but she looked different today,with the tummy a little bulging out. When they have sped off, I asked one of the parents whether or not this boy or girl were still studying, to my surprise, I was told, the girl got impregnated by the boy and both were expelled, she's 16, he's 17. (I guess they were happy to be young parent,seeing them so happy and chatty)

They say,time has changed,children mature faster than we expect them to be and with the onslaught of internet,they are being bombarded and inundated with "sex",the good and the bad of it but most of often the bad of it supersedes the good.

I remember just last week, I was talking to Marvell's former teacher and what she told me was something I felt really interesting, she said when her boy reached the age of 17, she would even prepare her boy with "condoms" when she found out that if he had a girlfriend already,just to prevent "the accident"

Many of my friends had been saying the same to me too that we should talk to our boys of the use of condoms when they reach the age of "sexablity", what do you think, folks?

You know last week, I was talking to a dear friend's son,(age 15) I was talking to him about the BGR (boy and girl relationship) I asked him if one day if his girlfriend asked him to have sex with him (okay he has got a girlfriend already),would he do it, he said he didn't lnow,as I probed, he said he would but he was afraid of the "accident" then I said what if he had the excess to condoms, would he do it, he said he would. Ditto.

I am keeping my finger cross cos my time will come and I hope and pray that those "lessons" that I have shared with my boys about "sex" will reap the good sides of it.

It is good to teach our children the ways of the LORD

P/S : Teach now or regret later

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Hey baby are you there?

I need your help here, so to you my friends if you have faced such scenario before and managed to put an end to it,please let me know.

You see,every time I turn on my "hotmail" account, there tends to be some kind of "invitation for chats" from someone out there that goes something like this,"Hey baby are you there?" "Hey cutie, you there?" "You wanna chat?"

And this is the one that I hate the most,especially when you are damn busy in the morning, by just click to delete these "sexual innuendos messages" is damn frustrating..

P/S : Thanks guys

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Valentine 365

I've never for once celebrated Valentine with my wife,for I strongly believe showering of love should come 365 instead of 214.

I hope for each of my married life to a wonderful woman, I could be a Valentine husband and a Valentine papa, I should be better a husband today than I was yesterday.

Anyway for this special day, I would like to express my gratitude to my lovely wife for all the sacrifices she's made and still making for the family........

And to all of you my friends,wishing you a 365 Valentine as well and to quote Oscar Wilde " To love oneself is the beginning of life long romance" then we begin to give out more love.

P/S : To truly love someone is not about who is wrong or right,it is about "help me to make my wrongs right"

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Whitney Houston

One of my all time favourite divas,Whitney Houston passes away at age 48,just heard from a radio annoucement and then the Deejay started playing some Whitney's hits,man it sure brought back loads of memories.

From the mid 80s to the late 90s,she was one of the greatest artists during that era,now that soulful,powerful and peerless voice that once accompanied us through that period will surely make us feel a little lost with the passing of Whitney.

I remember I used to love to dance with this song so much

P/S : The voice shall remains

Thursday, February 09, 2012

Black faced lady...........

He said he was sick and tired of his wife for she always shows her "black face" and he lamented that marriage was no fun anymore,then I said to him, it was very easy a remedy to bring back the shine and glory to his wife,he then asked how.

I said,"Ask her to quit her job, you give her RM5000 or more a month, a overseas holiday once or more a year, give her a nice car,let her chill with her friends at Coffee Beans or Starbuck for breakfast or tea breaks" He then said I was talking "cock"

I didn't mean to be rude but many of times men have failed to understand that married women shoulder more responsibilities than men,when it comes to "dual income" family, I may be talking "cock" , I know it cos my lovely wife is also a working mom.......Ditto....

(Sometimes she really feels that she could be a Super Woman)

P/S : She wears more hats than I do................

Wednesday, February 08, 2012

I remember the day.

Happy Birthday Mom................here wishing you good health, happiness and joy always......sorry at times I have not been a good son.....................

Once again Happy 74th birthday......

P/S : Loving you always

Monday, February 06, 2012

Now I am getting better.

You know there is a verse in the Bible in the book of Psalm 15: 18 that says," A hot temper man stirs dissension but a patient man calms a quarrel"

I was just taking stock of myself,(particularly my temperament and my attitude towards my sons) Jovial to be exact, it was kind of hard and most of the times, emotionally challenged dealing with him,now that he is his teens.

Looking back of late,it had not been really all that nice,in fact it affected our "father and son" bonding when the two of us collide,sometimes I really felt like a lousy papa.

After so much of so called "soul searching", I began to look into myself and I started to put myself into his shoes,I realized that there were in fact things that I could master to make the "bad" good.None of them in my family realized this but in fact I had for the past few weeks,I have discovered that it was not that hard dealing with my teen boy.

Now I want to see more laughter and funny antics flying in the house,if they feel good,they listen.

Have a happy Chap Goh Mei

P/S : Laughter is still the best medicine

Friday, February 03, 2012

Of fortune telling and finding out the truth

A very rich businessman, after much persuasion from his very rich business friends,finally agreed to follow his friends to have his fortune read by as according to his friends a very "highly powerful" fortune teller.

As soon as the fortune teller sees him, he says to him," Your wealth is here to stay and is likely to grow beyond your imagination" then he pauses,when the businessman hears this,he is very very happy.

The fortune teller then continues," But your wealth will end with your passing and there is no one sharing "your blood" that you can pass on to" at this juncture, the businessman is fuming,then angrily shoots back at the fortune teller," You talk nonsense, I have got a son of whom i love so dearly, a lovely wife that makes up a happy family" The fortune teller just says," I am very sure that you don't have a son",the businessman just walks off and vows never to come back again.

For so many weeks, this businessman is being bogged down with what the fortune teller has said to him,part of him is refuting all that the fortune teller is saying, the other part of him,he is confused after hearing from his friends how accurate the "fortune teller" is.

He finally decides to put all his confusion and his doubt to an end to prove once and for all(because by now his friends really think that his son is not his)that what the "fortune teller" says is utter rubbish, so he goes for the DNA test, and the result........................

The "fortune teller" is spot one, his son is actually and medically proven not his, he gets mad,divorces his wife,pays her some money to take care of the boy and wish not to see them again. He goes back to the "fortune teller" again, saluting him for his "powerful" reading.

Now back to my previous post about the lost I Pad 2, another sister of mine insisted that,she wanted to seek some kind of " fortune telling" to know who stole the I Pad 2 or where could the I pad 2 be. I asked her what good would it bring even if the truth is finally known?

Just like the rich businessman, he could continue living his life as a rich businessman with a son, a wife and a happy family but a "spot on" fortune telling just spoils it for good for him.

Have a great weekend and God bless. Don't worry about the future,it is in HIS hand

P/S : Sometimes stupidity can bring us more joy and happiness then being smart

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

The fault of the I Pad 2

It was a CNY gathering just for the family members,hosted by my youngest sister at her twin bungalows on the second day of CNY,my family members comprise my siblings,my nephews and nieces (ages 10 to 23),my brother in laws and the youngest being my nephew's youngest daughter, age 2.

It was a fun and meaningful family gathering as far as I was concerned,everything went on fine,until one "funny thing happened."

My nephew with his wife and daughter left the earliest,not long after they left, my nephew called his mother (my sister) and she got panicked, I thought something bad happened but it turned out that my nephew was asking did anyone see his I pad 2.

You see my nephew and his wife purposely bought a I Pad 2 for their 2 years old daughter as gift and I believe as a toy too, now that the I Pad 2 was lost in the midst of the party and in the presence of my youngest sister's house and with the family members as the only guests,something was really amiss, as far as I was concerned.

I did see the lil one playing with the I Pad 2 during the party but I did not care much about cos I was busy enjoying myself and the least I could think of you that it would be stolen.

My youngest sister searched her Filipino's room, to no avail and she and her family combed the whole house the next morning but the I Pad 2 was like "gone for go." I felt bad about the whole episode about this "MIA" of the I Pad 2 saga due to the following reasons.

1) I felt bad for the host (My youngest sister) that such a incident took place in her house and all because of her initiative to host a party for the family.

2)If the I pad 2 was really stolen,then one of the family members must have been the culprit and this indeed is no good and I was afraid that this could be the last gathering for the family.

3)I was afraid that someone was thinking someone did it with all the suspicion flying around in the family.

I really felt bad about this episode of the "missing I pad 2" cos it involved the family and the next day I took my mother out for a breakfast,I just told my mother (cos she was not too happy) that just forget about the incident but she was not too keen to do so.

Let us come clean and let us forgive and forget.

P/S : Good or bad, we are family

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Of sex and prayer....

I was chilling with my lovely wife last night,knowing that we could stay up late for today my boys are off school due to the "Pai Thi Kong" (here in Penang last night was the grandest for the Hokkiens) over a bottle of red wine at home.

As we were talking and "red wining" away, I got a little sexy and then was telling my wife this," Dear let's go and have some XXX" then she said," Sorry dear, today I can't " Quickly I went into the master,turned on the air con, came out waited for a while,then went in again.

Then I started to pray,"Lord thank you for my able body and thank you for my family" just to cool myself down. That prayer worked, I was subdued and calm.

Life's like that,isn't it, we don't always get our ways but we must always be thankful that that will be other times,if we keep asking,right?

P/S : Now trust me,prayers can overcome the craves of our mortal body