Friday, February 17, 2012

Delight means Joy

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Today's word to write about is Delight.  I have 5 minutes.

DELIGHT

When I hear the word delight, it brings to mind a very difficult time in my life.

It's true - a great word like delight - makes me think of a struggle.

For quite a while, my husband and I struggled with infertility.  Starting at about year three of our marriage, we were obsessed, consumed, and totally caught up in the desire of our heart - to have children.

We begged and pleaded with God to let us become parents.

One day, I ran across this verse:
"Delight yourself also in the Lord,
And He shall give you the desires of your heart." Psalm 37:4

I knew the desire of my heart, it was to be a mother.  Delight yourself also in the Lord - what did that mean?  I think it means to make Him your focus, your joy.  Your all in all.  In other words, to keep your eyes on Him and trust Him with ever fiber of your being.

It's a call to a higher life.  It doesn't come naturally.  You will fall short more often than you achieve it.

Yet when you do, it will be so worth it.  It will fill you with joy.

Incidentally, our first daughter's middle name is Joy.  I picked it because it means "delight."

STOP (Okay, I did 6 minutes instead of 5.  I'm learning to be quicker!)


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To read more 5 minute descriptions of delight, visit Lisa-Jo's blog, The Gypsy Mama.

Friday's Fave Five - February 17, 2012


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It's lovely Friday once again.  Time to recap my week:

1.  Favorite Blog Post to write:  This week flew by and I didn't post as frequently as I would have liked.  I did do a post, entitled "Truthful Tim" about my little brother.  I love to write about our life growing up in the sixties and seventies! It was a "kinder and gentler" time and sometimes I wish we all still lived in those decades!

2.  Favorite Photo:  Below is a photo of yellow roses my hubby surprised me with on Valentines Day. Instead of having the florist deliver them, he buzzed me at the door at work during my lunch hour bearing a vase of my favorite roses:


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 You gotta love a guy that will drive 15 miles just to surprise his wife!

3. Favorite Meal:  This week was just home-cooked meals at home.  Last night was my favorite:  baked barbecue chicken.  It was so good!  And I'm having leftovers for lunch today.  (Too bad I can never remember to take a photo of  the finished product - I'm always too ready to dive in and eat it!)

4.  Favorite Quote:

"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well,
neither does bathing, that's why we recommend it daily."
Zig Ziglar
 
I love this quote especially this week.  At Wednesday's prayer meeting, I felt fresh motivation.  I love it when God does that!  He confirmed it to me at a board meeting last night - He does have a plan for our little church, and it will come to pass!

5.  Favorite New Blog to Visit:  I have to give a shout out to my newest follower, Denise J. Hughes.  I met Denise at a couple writing challenges at The Gypsy Mama's Blog.  I've been impressed with her posts. Today she has written a fantastic post on 1 Corinthians 13.  Visit her at her blog, Denise J. Hughes:  Keeping a Slower Pace on a Simpler Path.

Please visit the lovely Susanne at her blog, Living to Tell the Story.  She is the driving force behind Friday's Fave Five, helping us to focus on the positive.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Truthful Tim

My little brother was all boy.  He loved Hot Wheel cars, to play in the dirt and to play ball, any kind of ball. Sometimes he got his mouth washed out with soap for saying "bad words." 

He loved to rearrange furniture, even staying during  recess and  moving the piano all by himself (in kindergarten!) because he didn't like where it was. It's funny he would care about the piano because he hated music.  He especially hated movies that were musicals.  Every time the cast would burst into song, he would groan, roll his eyes, and question, "why do they have to sing all the time?"

He also was very truthful and would tell on himself.  This was quite amusing to me when he told on himself, but not so funny when his confessions included ... well, me!

Once, my cousins, Jack and Micki, came over with their parents to visit us.  Immediately we headed upstairs, leaving the parents drinking coffee and yakking downstairs. There was something that we kids loved to do but it was forbidden.  Mom had a walk-in closet upstairs that we loved turning into a fort.  It had a sloping ceiling that followed the roofline.  One side of the closet was 8 feet tall, the opposite side was 3 feet tall.

There was something about going into the bowels of that closet that made you feel that it was "secret headquarters."  No one would be able to find you there!  Given my previously mentioned love of spying and  secret agents, it just felt right to hunker down in there.  Added to that guilty pleasure was the fact that there were rows of baskets of clothes - perfect for disguises!

It didn't take long for the closet to become a disaster area when just my brother and I were playing in there, hence the rule about not playing in the closet. I want to be clear - we knew better to play in there.  Jack and Micki did too.

They say that rules are made to be broken.  We didn't waste time playing other stuff - all four of us headed immediately for the closet.  We had a great time and played for hours up there.  It should have been a sign to our parents that we were up to no good when we disappeared and didn't bug them.
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At last it was time for lunch and Mom called up the stairs to come down.  Leaving the closet looking like a disaster area, we started to troop downstairs when Jack stopped my brother.  "Now, Tim, whatever you do, don't tell Aunt Carol we've been playing in the closet."

"Oh, I won't!  She'd spank my butt!"  Tim said, serious as a heart attack. I can still see how solemn he looked, nodding his head in agreement. He was such an adorable little boy!

Then quick as a flash, he ran ahead of us out of the room and pounded down the stairs.  I guarantee you that before his foot touched the last step, he yelled out, "Mom, we been playing in the closet!"

Yes, Tim was truthful ... and a fink!
 
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The above post was linked to Mama Kat's Pretty Much World Famous Writer's Workshop.  I wrote this in answer to prompt 5, "Share a story about a sibling."

Monday, February 13, 2012

Daybook 02.13.12



FOR TODAY, MONDAY, FEBRUARY 13TH

Outside my window...a wintry day.  We've 100% chance of a wintry mix of precipitation this evening.

I am thinking...tomorrow would be a wonderful day to stay home!

I am thankful
...to be able to breathe through my nose.  You don't realize what a blessing this is until you can't do it.

In the kitchen... pinto beans in the crockpot.

I am wearing...black pinstripe pants, black double-breasted jacket, coral cami, and black boots.  I've got the crystal and gray beads and earrings on that Liss gave me for Christmas.

I am creating...a bible lesson on Psalm 8.

I am going...to go run errands in a few minutes before it starts to snow.

I am reading...nothing right now ... time to get a new book from the library.

I am hoping...for a mighty move of God in our church SOON.

I am looking forward to...the 24th.  We are going to a concert and out to dinner with our friends, Wayne and Glenda.

I am pondering...what our church can do to minister to the less-fortunate.  I know we are a very small group, but we can still make a difference.

A favorite quote for today: 

"Just as love for God begins with listening for His word, so the beginning of love for the brethren is learning to listen to them." Dietrich Bonhoffer

One of my favorite things...a good hair day.

A few plans for the rest of the week: studying for presenting a bible lesson Wednesday, a  board meeting Thursday, planning for worship music both services on Sunday as Brenda will be out of town this weekend.

A peek into my day
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 I love to decorate with candy Valentine hearts this time of year!


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Daybooking is a concept created by Peggy Hostetler.  Visit her blog, The Simple Woman's Daybook to link up.

Friday, February 10, 2012

TRUST - IT ALL WORKS FOR GOOD

On Fridays, I visit The Gypsy Mama's blog and participate in Five Minute Friday.  Here is how she explains it:
Around here we write for five minutes flat on Fridays.
We write because we want to, not because we have to. We write for fun, for joy, for discovery.
On Fridays we just write without worrying if it’s just right or not. Won’t you join us?
 

1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.
2. Link back here and invite others to join in.
3. Please visit the person who linked up before you & encourage them.
OK, are you ready? Give me your best five minutes on:
::

Trust…

GO

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Maybe it's because I just celebrated an anniversary, but when I think of trust, I think of it in conjunction with marriage.  The greatest gift my spouse has given me is trust.  I trust him to always be thinking of me and to be faithful to me.  If you can't trust a spouse to be faithful, then there really is no marriage.

I also think of trust in relation to my Savior.  I can trust Him to always have my best at heart.  I truly believe that He allows nothing to touch me that is not for my ultimate good.  I'm not being Pollyanna, I know that life is not always sunshine and roses.  But I trust there is a purpose for everything that comes my way, be it good or bad.


In the end, it will all be good.

Romans 8:28 - And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

He said it, I believe it.

And that says it all!

STOP


To see what others say about trust, visit Lisa-Jo at The Gypsy Mama blog.

Friday's Fave Five, February 10, 2012

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Time to reflect on this week's joys:

1.  The week started out on a note of sadness.  I learned that one of the boys in my youth group I attended growing up passed away.  It really shook me up on many levels but mainly because I had said the last time I was home that NEXT visit I was going to be sure and go out to see Ricky and Gayle.  And now I can't.

You may ask why then am I mentioning this on a list of favorites?  I am thankful for the wonderful youth group I belonged to at Amelia Baptist Church.  I met these wonderful people when I was 13 and stayed until I moved away to get married at age 20. I have many fond memories, and that is what I chose to dwell on this week.

I've written before about the two faithful moms, Roberta and Lois, that shepherded us kids. You can read about them here. Their work was cut out for them, keeping track of the core group:  me, Donnie and Eva, Ricky and Gayle, Bonnie Faye, Debbie, Ronnie Gaskin, David McKendree, Ronnie McKendree, Danny, Paul and Patsy Hart, Brenda Whitehurst - well, I could go on and on. Thank you all for the wonderful times of friendship.  You made teen-age life wonderful!
 
2. This week was also a week of bronchitis for my hubby and sinus infections for me. Again, looking for the silver lining in a cloud of sickness:  I'm thankful for hot tea, warm jammies, soft tissues with lotion, and a comfy couch to rest on. Creature comforts really help when you don't feel at your best.

3. The main event of the week was that on Monday, Jim and I celebrated 36 years of marriage.  Because neither of us were feeling well, we really haven't celebrated our anniversary yet. It feels good, though, to reflect on 36 years of learning to do life together.  We are each other's biggest fan, and we often tell each other we would "be lost without you."

4. Quote of the week:

I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought,
and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.
G.K. Chesterton

Can this mean that the highest form of thought is participating in Friday's Favorite Five?

5.  I got my hair done last night - I'm loving it!  Don't think me vain, but it's definitely a favorite to have a good hair day.

Hey, why don't you link up at Susanne's blog, Living to Tell the Story and share YOUR five?

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Who's That Knocking On My Door?

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Today's prompt from Writer's Workshop:  1.) Who was at your front door? (inspired by fat mum slim)

As I thought about this prompt, I realized that most of the time, I know who is at my door.  In today's culture, more than likely if you are going to someone's house, you call first.  At least that is how I do things, and most my friends call before coming as well.  I'm a big believer in greeting my guests with a smile and / or hug and I am usually right there as soon as the car pulls into the driveway.

I began to think of times when I didn't know someone was coming. Surprise visitors, so to speak, who came and knocked at my door. And then I remembered ...

A few months after our wedding, my husband had to go away for training for his job.  He was going to be gone for about a week. It seemed a good time because during that same week, I was starting a new job. The only thing was that I was a little leery of spending the evenings alone.  (What can I say?  I was a child bride.)

I decided to ask my cousin Renda (my readers will know her as the girl in the horsefly story) to spend the week at my house.  Renda was still in high school, and I'm not sure what protection I thought she might be in the case of burglars or bumps-in-the night, but she agreed to hang out with me.

After a couple of days, my house began to get messy.  My thinking was:  "hey, the hubby is not home, I am working a new job, I don't feel like cleaning the house."  Renda and I would snack and then pile our dishes in the sink.

One evening in particular, Renda was watching a ball game on television, I was reading.  The house was a wreck. I remember looking around and thinking, "After I finish this book, I'm going to clean this pig-pen up."

Suddenly, there was a knock at the door.  I went over to the door, opened it, saw who was there, and slammed it shut again. I thought, "I must be dreaming!  That can't be Toni. I haven't even heard from her lately." I opened the door again, peaked out, and sure enough, it WAS Toni.  Toni, my bestie, who lived 1000 miles away, was standing on my doorstep. "Well, gee, aren't you going to let me in?"

I was dumbfounded, "But how did you get here?"  (The nearest airport was 2 hours away.)

"Your Uncle Sammy picked me up," she told me as she came in.

I turned and there was Renda, all packed up and ready to leave. Turns out the whole family was in on the secret.

After I got over the shock and surprise, we had a wonderful time of fun and girl-talk for the next couple of days.

Moral of the story - always do the dishes and keep the house picked up.  You never know who might drop in!

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Curious about other front-door stories?  Click on Mama Kat's Pretty Much World Famous Writer's Workshop link here, and check it out.


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